As parent to any kind of child, it is never an easy task for every mom and dad (especially when only mom left). For the first time parents, for sure this is going to be a hard responsibility. There are worries that parents usually think about that sometime lead to mismanagement of their kids.
1) At first, if the kid is unwanted (got pregnant without plans have a baby) and so mentally kid has already affected on it. Though it does not really show on the physical appearance of the child but somehow mentally when the child has grown up, something is missing in his personality.
2) If both parties (mom and dad) of the child are financially unstable, then it could lead to a big problem in the whole family. The kid will possibly be get malnourished due to lack of vitamins and minerals and foods to intake.
These are just some of those worries of new and single parents that might come out raising their children. But no matter how hard it is, always remember these things that you can bring to the child's mind;
a) Raise him in a practical way
b) Communicate with your child as if they are already old
c) Do not spoil them with what they are asking
d) Make them understand why he can not have certain thing
e) Let him make mistakes and learn things by himself
These are just things that will possibly make your child understand how life is. Be with them and guide them all the way.
Hope this can help somehow to new, single parents. If you feel the same or you think something is wrong with my post, please feel free to leave a comment.
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